Spoken for Less Love Can Make a Woman Happy

What do you feel after a proposed lover? The most common answer would feel happy. But according to a recent study obtained by looking at Facebook status, post-spoken, she actually felt less happy.

Research on the status of Facebook was done by Cameron Marlow and DJ Patil. Cameron is one of the managers in charge of the research on Facebook. While Patil, chief researcher at Mountain View's LinkedIn Corp..

Both of them every day to observe how the behavior of people on Facebook. In the past year, Facebook also had a chance to develop 'Gross National Happiness Index' that measures the positive or negative status of the social networking site users.

From that measurement, Marlow and Patil found that after getting engaged, so women are less happy. What causes it?

"Maybe this happens because they have to plan a wedding," said Marlow in San Francisco Chronicle. "When the fiance does make her stress, but once married, in general negative feelings were declining. The opposite occurs in men, after marriage, increased negative feelings," added the man graduated from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology.

Divergent views expressed by penulit book 'Emotionally Engaged, a Bride's Guide to Surviving the' happiest 'Time of Her Life' Allison Moir-Smith. As quoted Lemondrop, according to Allison, after she became engaged to deal with the myth which says they should be happy, when in fact they are not too happy.

"Many women are sad to be leaving the single life, changes in the family, may feel distant from her friends who are still single," he explained.

So, until when feeling sad that haunt? Is it feeling sad is normal or not-do you regret having accepted his proposal?

Marriage counselors and therapists who wrote the book The Conscious Bride: Women Unveil Their True Feelings About Getting Hitched, Sheryl Paul says, women should be aware of whether he did have issues that need to be aware or not. From a number of women who consulted him he found various reasons why the sadness that comes after getting engaged. The causes include, among others, the women get violent, the unresolved issues of trust, a difference that will not be tolerated such as religion, money and children.

If indeed you have the issue, it seems you need to reevaluate the relationship. Do not later regret after you actually get married later. No problem if the doubts come when you're engaged to him. Better evaluate your relationship and he is currently the status of the engagement has not turned into a marriage.